Duties of a Husband

Duties of a Husband  pt. 1

”  Take unto thyself a wife and obey the ordinance of

Allah; take unto thyself a wife, and become a faithful

member of society. “


Dear fathers, by these lessons you can set your house in order and your children will learn to love instead of hate.

The lessons of this pamphlet are not for sale, but for the sake of humanity, as I am a prophet and the servant is worthy of his hire, you can receive this pamphlet at expense. The reason these lessons have not been known is because the Moslems of India, Egypt and Palestine had these secrets and kept them back from the outside world, and when the time appointed by Allah they loosened the keys and freed the secrets, and for the first time in ages have these secrets been delivered in the hands of the Moslems of America. All authority and rights of publishing of this pamphlet of 1927.

By the Prophet



1. Take unto thyself a wife and obey the ordinance of

Allah; take unto thyself a wife, and become a faithful

member of society.

2. But examine with care, and fix not suddenly. On thy

present choice depends thy future happiness.

3. If much of her time is destroyed in dress and

adornment; if she is enamored with her own beauty,

and delighted with her own praise; if she laugheth

much, and talketh loud; if her foot abideth not in her

father’s house, and her eyes with boldness rove on

the faces of men;

* though her beauty were as the sun in the firmament

of heaven, turn thy face from her charms, turn thy

feet from her paths, and suffer not thy soul to be

ensnared by the allurements of imagination.


” Vaunt not thy body; because it was first formed; nor of thy

brain, because therein thy soul resideth. Is not the master

of the house more honorable than its walls?”   MHK: 37:1

The Ka’bah (Arabic: ٱلْكَعْبَة‎‎ al-kaʿbah IPA: [alˈkaʕba], “The Cube”), also referred as al-ka`bah al-musharrafah (The Holy Kaaba), is a building at the center of Islam’s most sacred mosque, that is Al-Masjid Al-Ḥarām (Arabic: الـمَـسـجِـد الـحَـرَام‎‎, The Sacred Mosque), in Mecca, Hejaz, Saudi Arabia.[1] It is the most sacred site in Islam.[2] It is considered by Muslims to be the bayt Allāh, the “House of God”, and has a similar role to the Tabernacle and Holy of Holies in Judaism. Wherever they are in the world, Muslims are expected to face the Kaaba when performing salat (prayer). From any point in the world, the direction facing the Kaaba is called the qibla.

4. But when thou findest sensibility of heart, joined

with softness of manners; and accomplished mind,

with a form agreeable to thy fancy; take her home to

thy house; she is worthy to be thy friend, thy

companion in life, the wife of thy bosom.

Related: HQ 4:23; 24,, 25;

Forbidden to you are your mothers, and your daughters, and your sisters, and your paternal aunts, and your maternal aunts, and brother’s daughters and sister’s daughters, and your mothers that have suckled you, and your foster-sisters, and mothers of your wives, and your stepdaughters who are in your guardianship (born) of your wives to whom you have gone in — but if you have not gone in to them, there is no blame on you — and the wives of your sons who are of your own loins; and that you should have two sisters together, except what has already passed. Surely Allah is ever Forgiving, Merciful,

4:24 And all married women except those whom your right hands possess (are forbidden); (this is) Allah’s ordinance to you. And lawful for you are (all women) besides those, provided that you seek (them) with your property, taking (them) in marriage, not committing fornication. Then as to those whom you profit by (by marrying), give them their dowries as appointed. And there is no blame on you about what you mutually agree after what is appointed (of dowry). Surely Allah is ever Knowing, Wise.

4:25 And whoever among you cannot afford to marry free believing women, (let him marry) such of your believing maidens as your right hands possess. And Allah knows best your faith — you are (sprung) the one from the other. So marry them with the permission of their masters, and give them their dowries justly, they being chaste, not fornicating, nor receiving paramours; then if they are guilty of adultery when they are taken in marriage, they shall suffer half the punishment for free married women. This is for him among you who fears falling into evil. And that you abstain is better for you. And Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

5. O cherish her as a blessing sent to thee from

Heaven. Let the kindness of thy behavior endear

thee to her heart.


6. She is the mistress of thy house; treat her therefore

with respect, that thy servants may obey her.


7. Oppose not her inclination without cause; she is the

partner of thy cares, make her also the companion of

thy pleasures.


Jehovah is His Hebrew name; but everywhere

He is the causeless cause, the rootless root from which

all things have grown. MHK 10::19

Now truth is aught and has no cause, and yet it is the

cause of everything.. MHK 7:5

DUTY OF  A HUSBAND ( cont’d. )

8. Reprove her faults with gentleness, exact not her

obedience with rigor.


wife, you must obey your husband and take care of your

children and look after the duties of your household.

Act 7 DC& By-Laws.

Duty of a Husband ( cont’d. )

9. Trust thy secrets in her breast; her counsels are

sincere, thou shalt not be deceived.

10. Be faithful to her bed; for she is mother of thy


11. When pain and sickness assault her, let thy

tenderness soothe her affliction; a look from thee of

pity and love shall alleviate her grief, or instigate her

pain and be of more avail than ten physicians.


MHK: ”  Misery ” 44:12,13,14,15,16,17,18,19,20;

12. Grief is natural to thee, and is always about thee;

pleasure is a stranger and visiteth thee by times; use

well thy reason, and sorrow will be cast behind thee;

be prudent, and the visits of joy shall remain long with



13. Every part of thy frame is capable of sorrow, but

few and narrow are the paths that lead to delight.

14. Pleasures can be admitted only simply, but pains rush in a thousand at a time.

15. As the blaze of straw fadeth as soon as it is kindled,

,so passeth away the brightness of joy, and thou

knoweth not what become of it.

16. Sorrow is frequent, pleasure is rare; pain cometh

of itself; delight must be purchased; grief is unmixed,

but joy wanteth not its alloy of bitterness.

RELATED: MHK: 44:17,18,19;

17. As the soundest health is less perceived than the

lightest malady, so the highest joy toucheth us less

deep than the smallest sorrow.

18. We are in love with anguish; we often fly from

pleasure; when we purchase it, costeth it not more

than it is worth?

19. Reflection is the business of man; sense of his state

is his first duty; but who remembereth himself a boy?

Is it not in mercy, then, that sorrow is allotted unto us?

20. Man forseeth the evil that is to come; he

remembereth it when it is past; he considereth not that

the thought of affliction woundeth deeper than the

affliction itself.

Think not of thy pain, but when it is upon thee, and

thou shalt avoid what most hurt thee.


Duty of a Husband  ( cont’d. )

9. Trust thy secrets in her breast; her counsels are sincere, thou shalt not be deceived.


10. Be faithful to her bed; for she is mother of thy


11. When pain and sickness assault her, let thy

tenderness soothe her affliction; a look from thee of

pity and love shall alleviate her grief, or instigate her

pain and be of more avail than ten physicians.


12. Consider the tenderness of her sex, the delicacy

of her frame; and be not severe to her weakness, but

remember thine own imperfections.




Marriage Instructions for Man & Wife




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Holy Quran of Mecca/Medina



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There is no such thing as prostitution in Pattaya,” says

Col Apichai. “Where did they get the figure of 27,000

sex workers in Pattaya? Anyone can make up this





In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful



GG R.D.Webster-Bey, DM., Author

” Those who love that scandal should circulate

respecting those who believe, for them is a grievous

chastisement in this world and the Hereafter.

And Allah knows, while you know not.” HKM24:19

“Woe to every slanderer, defamer!

Who amasses wealth and counts it—

He thinks that his wealth will make him abide.

Nay, he will certainly be hurled into the crushing disaster;

And what will make thee realize what the crushing disaster is?

It is the Fire kindled by Allah,

Which rises over the hearts.”

Surely it is closed in on them,

In extended columns. HKM:104:1-9



” When scandal is busy, and the fame of her

neighbors is tossed from tongue to tongue;

charity and good nature open not her mouth, the

finger of silence resteth on her lip.

Her breast is the mansion of goodness, and

therefore she suspecteth no evil of others.”








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Surah 24:19

GG. R.D.Webster-Bey, Author

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Marriage Instructions for Man & Wife



All marriage ceremonies of members of the Moorish Science Temple of America must be performed by an ordained minister and the head of the temple.

And any man desiring to take unto himself a wife and receive our Moorish rites, he must go to the City Hall and receive his license to be registered in that city, county, and state. It then must be turned over in the hands of the aforesaid ordained minister and head of a temple after it has been properly signed by city officials. The price thereby for such administering to man and wife will be five dollars. For all those who have their papers and desire our Moorish marriage ceremony, it is three dollars.

We Moors cannot marry no one but we obligate you. according to our divine laws and covenant and the laws of the land. This must be proclaimed and made known to every temple so that there will be no misunderstanding. There will be no misunderstanding about I, the Prophet, and my teachings because Allah alone binds two hearts together as a unit. These are the marriage obligations and instructions for man and wife.

Chapter 22 from our Koran is to be read first to the husband and chapter 21 is to be read secondly to the wife. These are the instructions of marriage from our Holy Koran. Please obey the law as given you by your Prophet through your Governor.



Moorish Holy Koran Chapter XXI

Marriage Instructions for Man and Wife From the

Noble Prophet

1. Give ear, fair daughter of love, to the instructions

of prudence and let the precepts of truth sink deep in

thy heart; so shall the charms of thy mind add luster to

the elegance of thy form; and thy beauty, like the rose

it resembleth, shall retain its sweetness when its bloom is withered.

withered Rose


2. In the spring of thy youth, in the morning of thy days

, when the eyes of men gaze on thee with delight, and

nature whispereth in thine ear the meaning of their

looks; ah, hear with caution their seducing words;

guard well thy heart, nor listen to their soft



3. Remember thou art made man’s reasonable

companion, not the slave of his passion; the end of thy

being is not merely to gratify his loose desire; but to

assist him in the toils of life, to soothe his heart with

thy tenderness and recompense his care with soft


4. Who is she that winneth the heart of man, that

subdueth him to love, and reigneth in his breast?

5. Lo! Yonder she walketh in maiden sweetness, with

innocence in her mind, and modesty on her cheek.

6. Her hand seeketh employment, her foot delighteth

not in gadding abroad.

7. She is clothed with neatness, she is fed with

temperance; humility and meekness are as a crown of

glory circling her head.

8. On her tongue dwelleth music, the sweetness of

honey floweth from her lips. Decency is in all her

words, in her answers are mildness and truth.

9. Submission and obedience are the lessons of her life,

and peace and happiness are her reward.

10. Before her steps walketh prudence, and virtue

attendeth at her right hand.

11. Her eye speaketh softness and love, but discretion

with a sceptre sitteth on her brow.


12. The tongue of the licentious is dumb in her presence; the awe of her virtue keepeth him silent.

13. When scandal is busy, and the fame of her

neighbors is tossed from tongue to tongue;

Finger of SILENCE


if charity and good nature open not her mouth, the

finger of silence resteth on her lip.

14. Her breast is the mansion of goodness, and

therefore she suspecteth no evil of others.


Sudan mother and child

15. Happy were the man that should make her his wife;

happy the child that should call her mother.

(A mother and child at a World Concern food

distribution site in Raja, South Sudan. Families in Raja

are frequently threatened by LRA attacks.)

distribution site in Raja, South Sudan




16. She presideth in the house, and there is peace;

she commandeth with judgment, and is obeyed.

17. She ariseth in the morning, she considers her

affairs, and appointeth to every one their proper


18. The care of her family is her whole delight; to that

alone she applieth her study; and elegance with

frugality is seen in her mansion.

19. The prudence of her management is an honor to

her husband, he heareth her praise with a secret


20. She informeth the minds of her children with

wisdom; she fashioneth their manners from the

examples of her own goodness.

21. The words of her mouth is the law of their youth;

the motion of her eye commandeth their obedience.

22. She speaketh, and the servants fly; she pointeth,

and the thing is done; for the law of love is in their hearts

, and her kindness addeth wings to their feet.

” As the moon retaineth her nature, though darkness spread itself before her face as a curtain; so the soul remaineth perfect, even in the bosom of a fool.” 38:8MHK

23. In prosperity she is not puffed up; in adversity she

healeth the wounds of fortune with patience.


24. The troubles of her husband are alleviated by her

councils and sweetened by her endearments;

he putteth his heart in her bosom, and receiveth


25. Happy is the man that has made her his wife;

happy the child that call her mother.





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Ancient Egyptian religion was a complex system of polytheistic beliefs and rituals which were an integral part of ancient Egyptian society. It centered on the Egyptians’ interaction with many deities who were believed to be present in, and in control of, the forces of nature. Rituals such as prayers and offerings were efforts to provide for the gods and gain their favor. Formal religious practice centered on the pharaoh, the king of Egypt, who was believed to possess a divine power by virtue of his position. He acted as the intermediary between his people and the gods and was obligated to sustain the gods through rituals and offerings so that they could maintain order in the universe. The state dedicated enormous resources to Egyptian rituals and to the construction of the temples.


Kaaba, the holiest place in Islam, a large cube-shaped building inside the al-Masjid al-Haram mosque in Mecca



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